Appreciation post: The time I kept bailing on plans with a new friend until she finally called me out on it

I was at my desk last Tuesday scrolling through her text again after canceling for the third time, so I drove to her place with takeout and we ended up talking for 2 hours about why we both get scared of new friendships, has anyone else gotten stuck in that avoidance loop?

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stellac9710d ago

That's the real question though, what exactly are you afraid will happen if you actually show up?

the_margaret10d ago

Friend of mine bailed on a party, stayed home, and missed meeting her future husband there.