Warned a coworker at my building in Reno about quitting without a backup plan, she said something that stuck with me
I was talking to Maria, who manages the building next to mine in Reno, after she put in her notice with zero plan lined up. She said, "the job already quit on me first, I just made it official," and that hit different because I had stayed at a place that cut my pay by $4 an hour for 7 months hoping it would get better. If you are eyeing the door, ask yourself what you are really waiting for. How did you know it was finally time to walk, and did anyone try to talk you out of it?
What finally made you stop waiting for it to get better? I did the same thing you did, stayed 7 months after a pay cut because I kept telling myself it was temporary. Looking back those 7 months cost me way more than the $4 an hour. Here is what I learned: the sign it is time to go is when you stop being mad about it. When you just feel numb walking in, that is your gut already packing its bags. Maria was right, the job quit on her first, she just stopped pretending otherwise. So if you have to ask yourself what you are waiting for, you already know the answer.