Thinking about how my pops handled shop time with us boys

Back in the day, my dad would have us help in his workshop after school. We learned to cut metal and fit pipes with basic hand tools. It was messy and loud, but we felt part of his world. Now, I try to teach my nephew, but with all the safety gear and new rules, it's not the same. I miss the raw, hands-on way we learned the trade. Still, seeing him get interested makes me proud. Those old days built a bond that's hard to match now.

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wendykim6mo ago

Honestly, I get that completely. My grandpa had this dusty old garage and he'd let me hand him greasy tools while he fixed the lawnmower. I'd come home covered in oil stains and sawdust, but I felt so trusted, you know? It wasn't about the right gear, it was just about being there, getting your hands dirty together. That feeling of helping with real work, it sticks with you.

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harris.barbara6mo ago

What did you used to think mattered more in those moments? I always thought it was about doing things right, but stories like yours show me it's really just about showing up.

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brown.jenny6mo ago

My uncle's garage was just like that too.

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