A barber in Tulsa told me I kept failing because I never picked a lane, and I still think about it

Emma Mitchell · 2026-10-06T11:05:05.748351+00:00

I kept bouncing between learning guitar and coding for like 2 years and never got good at either. Last month I was getting a haircut at a place on 15th street in Tulsa and the barber asked what I do for fun. I said I try to learn stuff but never stick with it, and he just said 'sounds like you like starting more than doing.' He told me his son played 30 minutes of drums a day for 3 years and now plays in a band while I was jumping around. Has anyone else had a random person call out their pattern like that?

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