I finally realized I was the friend who always talked about myself

Has anyone else had a friend kinda ghost after you fixed something for them and now I'm second guessing if I came off as a know-it-all?

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sethb451d ago

So I'm the designated IT support hotline with a side of friendship repair.

the_stella3d ago

Oh man, I used to think being helpful was always a good thing. Like fixing someone's problem was just being a good friend. But then I noticed people started pulling away after I'd "help" them, and it hit me. Maybe they just wanted to vent or figure it out themselves, not get a full-on fix-it lecture. It's a hard pill to swallow, isn't it?