I finally saw what happens when you stop being the one who plans everything
My buddy Dave and I used to get lunch every other week, and for about 3 years I was the only one sending the text. Then last February I just stopped. For 5 weeks nothing happened, no plans, no messages. Then he called me out of the blue to grab pizza in Austin, and since then he has set up 4 of our 6 meetups. Turns out I was not the glue, I was just the alarm clock. Has anyone else tried going quiet for a bit to see who reaches out first?