Just realized that committing to one friend catch-up a month beats trying to see everyone all the time.

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You ever get that weird guilt for not seeing people enough? I feel you and reese_patel on how forcing it monthly actually works better than chasing ghosts. My buddy Tom and I just spent a solid three hours over coffee last week because it was his locked-in slot, and it felt real instead of rushed.

reese_patel6d ago

Hell yes, this is the only way to do it without burning out. Trying to keep up with everyone all the time just means you end up seeing no one properly. Pick your person for the month, lock it in, and actually follow through. It beats a dozen flaky "we should hang out" texts that go nowhere.

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