Showerthought: I realized I was the flaky friend after my buddy called me out

For years, I'd say 'we should hang out' but never set a date. My friend Mark finally said, 'You know, Jana, you've suggested getting coffee about seven times since Christmas.' It hit me that my vague plans were making people feel like an afterthought. Now I try to name a specific day or activity right away. Does anyone think being direct like that comes off as too pushy, or is it actually more respectful?

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webb.blake27d ago

Ngl, it's a sign of respect. Most people are just stuck in that same cycle of vague plans.

lane.emma26d ago

Define that cycle for me, what does it actually look like?