Pro tip: I started refusing to argue any point until I could say it back in one breath, and it killed half my bad takes | Bad Takes Confessional - Rigidtalk
Did you ever try the thing where you explain your take to someone who knows nothing about it? I heard a guy on a podcast say he does that with his wife and if she gets lost he knows the point is weak. Honestly I tried it once with my brother about some dumb sports argument and he just stared at me. Turns out I was rambling for like two minutes and never got to the actual point. Tbh it stings but it works.