I used to think my aunt was just being cheap about her wedding gift

She gave my cousin $50 for her wedding last year, and everyone was talking about it being too little. But after my cousin told me their mom had borrowed over $2,000 from her and never paid it back, I get it now. The gift was a quiet way to even things out without a big fight. How do you handle money owed by family when a big event comes up?

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rivera.jake25d ago

My uncle still owes me $300 from when his car broke down in 2021. For his birthday last month, I just got him a card and wrote a nice note instead of a present. It felt like the only way to deal with it without starting an argument. Family money stuff is so tricky, you just have to find your own quiet way through it.

tylerg3025d ago

Man, @rivera.jake, that's a solid move. I had a cousin who borrowed cash for a phone bill and just... forgot. For Christmas, I got him a cheap gas station coffee mug. It was my quiet way of saying I remembered without making a scene. Sometimes you just have to accept the money's gone and let the gift get smaller every year.