I was reading an old industry report and saw that 70% of small business owners who get a formal mentor stick with it for over five years. | Decision Debate Room - Rigidtalk
I was reading an old industry report and saw that 70% of small business owners who get a formal mentor stick with it for over five years.
Found that stat in a PDF from a local business development center, and it's making me seriously consider finally reaching out to a retired shop owner I know for advice, even though the idea of asking feels awkward.
Whoa, hold on a second. That stat sounds way too high to be real. I looked into this a lot last year. Most studies show mentor relationships in business fizzle out much faster than that, like in a year or two. The PDF might be counting ANY check-in as "sticking with it," which is pretty misleading. You should still totally ask that shop owner though. Just don't feel bad if the talks don't last five whole years. That's normal.
Oh man, I totally get that. I used to think the same way about those long term stats, they always felt fake. But then I saw how my friend's dad still calls his old boss for advice, like, decades later, just a quick coffee twice a year. And my own mentor from college, we don't talk every week, but I still email her with big questions. Maybe that's what they mean? It's not a weekly meeting for five years, but having that person you can still reach out to. It changed how I see it.
Maybe it's just me but I feel like people overthink this whole mentor thing sometimes. It doesn't have to be this huge serious commitment, a quick email here and there still counts.